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shhh lips

12-14-2005, 05:01 PM

Well it depends on how you and her are. And personally I dont ask random ppl for their #, instead ask ppl @ friends'/your parties for their number. I find that much more successful.
Or you can always use these awesome pickup lines (http://www.popularasians.com/showthread.php?t=133) imo :bowdown: .

remix

12-14-2005, 05:37 PM

Instant messenging them helps soften the blow if they do in fact reject you.

Fobstar

12-14-2005, 07:27 PM

pretend she was a guy but avoid weird topics

wguan_86

12-14-2005, 11:10 PM

i 'm a newb at this but this is what i think.

1. the enterance and ice breaker line
2. find a topic to talk about that you kno she'll talk for say...something that joins both of you (similarities/ common grounds). Another key is keep her interested by getting her involved in the conversation.
3. the close

Seems easy but it's not takes practice just like everything else out there.

turtlebooger

12-23-2005, 12:46 PM

Just talk to her for a bit then ask for her number if things go well.

fupoki

12-23-2005, 07:55 PM

um just be careful.. some girls get creeped out when guys start to talk to them out of no where.. lol it happens to my friends and i all the time.. sooo weirdd...

but try dropping something and getting the girl to pick up or something.. and be like hey you look kind of fimilar or something.. not too obvious i guess =/ (i tried this on a guy from my bus) just don't seem to aggressive cause she'll just think you're crazy XDD

krazyaznboi

12-23-2005, 09:51 PM

do u actually no the gurl if u do just have a normal chat and then ask for it....but if u dont then try to get her to no u

Knoctur_nal

12-24-2005, 09:09 PM

tell her you want to mate with her...

G-UNIT

12-26-2005, 05:18 PM

well i like this girl in my class and liked her very much and she know me and i know her hehe buut im just to shy to ask her out dont know why....... any tips????? :bowdown: :bowdown:

shhh lips

12-26-2005, 07:03 PM

^ well you can always wait till prom. Most of the girls at my school were desperate for a date, so thats the time to plan your attack.

poondock

12-29-2005, 10:41 PM

but what if the prom is like at the end of the year and you cant wait ^
if your asking a girl for their number, just be straight foward about it.
have a conversation with her, and then near the end ask for the number.
thats what i ususally do, although getting the number of a girl these days doesnt mean much.

Efini_7

01-15-2006, 05:53 AM

Just ask for it if they reject u they is there lost =)

cyta

01-20-2006, 01:06 PM

talk to her make her smile alot....
then ask whe u think it is right to
dont push things to fast

mikeyh

01-20-2006, 04:24 PM

Men you are just too shy.
You have to go talk to her and if she doesn't like you so what you can be friend.
Just don't talk to much and just be yourself.
This really work for me :)

aznrice

01-21-2006, 02:24 AM

i try not to be shy :D
but i get speechless around her -lol

boiboi67

01-21-2006, 05:54 PM

well this is wat i do...i wud walk up 2 her chat 2 her normally..and c wat happens from there on...

aftashock

01-21-2006, 11:39 PM

go to her and say" damn girl your hot, wanna exchange numba?"

lionheart

01-22-2006, 12:04 AM

follow this principle:

no guts no glory

mikeyh

01-22-2006, 09:24 AM

Just go and say ''HOW YOU DOIN?''

wguan_86

01-22-2006, 12:43 PM

it's funny cuz everyone is tell him to just go up there and talk to her.. the thing is.. he can't.. approah nor have they brokent he ice yet.
If you think your too shy then you have make yourself more confident. for example: prepare what your gonan say to her. this might sound lame but your only thing way cuz your speechless around her. This would atleast initialize a start in conversation.. if you kno a bit about her it's even better.. start from there. but key is plan what your gonna talk abut.. cue card it and practice it....But this is the thing.. you haven't talked to her yet...i assume you guys alreadi know of each other...usualli first impression is important ...if she thinks your the shy type then you've lost half the race already.

But do give that idea a try.. you'll never kno outcome...
But yea you wouldn't be here asking for help if you had some more courage... How'd i practice when i was younger was go with a bunch of friends to a mall and get your friends to pick targets and then you go.. at first it's pretti embarrassing but sooner or later it won't be more than another conversation.

Sixth

01-22-2006, 02:29 PM

i asked a girl out of nothing and she freaked out ... pickup lines isn't always work .... show ur charm, urself, be honest

wguan_86

01-22-2006, 08:38 PM

mayb i should clearify.. i didn't mean to pull pick up lines..
i mean script it as in what you'll be saying in normal conversations....and who said it's not you when you script it.. you just can't think cuz your all nervous..so with the help of knowing what you'll talk about will assist where the conversation goes. since you see her around i assume that's a school mate? no need to rush. Take sixth advise one step at a time.

shinobi

01-22-2006, 09:54 PM

listen to wguan_86 he's pretty good at it -lol :P

popalopa

01-23-2006, 01:00 PM

Two ways:

1. Go to the girl and talk to her and ask a number.
Pretty hard if you don't know her , she's pretty much gonna freak out and give you a false number.
2. Go to the girl, says something special like :" You caught my eyes " and give her YOUR number.
Now maybe she won't call you, cause girls they don't want to call first, but if you were mysterious enough, she's gonna be curious and she will want to call you, even if it's only for one date (better than nothing).

All the situations happened to me and that's how I reacted.
1.Before, when I used to be young, I was simply ignoring guys who would come up and talk to me, like what's your name bla bla bla boring yawn. Sometimes, I was caught off guard cause I thought the guy was looking for directions. Then he asks my name (gives a fake one), asks my number (gives a fake one), gives me his number (never call).
As I girl, if I gave my real number or name, I would be afraid that the guy would "stalk" me. It happened sometimes and I had to say to the guys to stop calling or else... And let's imagine that you bump into the guy another time, if you gave your fake name, you can always make as if he must have been wrong and didn't talk to you last time (it happened to me also).
2. Now , it happens a lot in the public transportation or in the shopping mall, some randoms guys stops me to ask for directions (it seems to be THE pick-up line) and then say something like you seem like a nice girl and them give me their number. At first I wasn't sure. I didn't want to sound too easy by calling but I was too curious so I called. That's it and it's simple.

wguan_86

01-23-2006, 10:49 PM

I don't know popalopa.. all your ways are going up for a ice breaker and close.... i don't think high school students like that.. if you have read the other post.. he saw her once.. and then he saw her again.. sounds to me like he sees her around...
Here this is a way to break some ice... t's gonna be thick but a good start is to just up ask for something ...say something about her clothes.. say i notice you've got blah blah blah.. i was wonder where you bought that ...jewlery is good one.. then you say thanks you. Just before you finish it. you ask for a nameand introduce yourself... then done...Don't got furthre on.....

Next time you you see her.. just say hi... update her on that jewllery or etc.. and leave again...potentially you can move in on her that way.. afterwards.. time will thin the ice for you to seal a deal..But key to all this is.. keep conversations short.

But you just have to step up and put away your fear.

popalopa

01-24-2006, 12:16 PM

You have a good point. I didn't know it was really specific, I though it was general. But I can see why he can be shy. Let's imagine he messes up the first time, if he sees the girl around, every time she's gonna see him, she'll think "OMG it's the freak". So either do it very slow or very fast. Slower would be better, especially if he is shy, but I don't think you should go to the girl directly. Maybe he should be introduced by somebody else who knows her or be in the same club or... ask for directions? -whistle

nycheero

01-28-2006, 12:24 AM

scuse me miss do you have the time?

Chey

01-28-2006, 04:08 PM

"hey, hows it going? whats your name?"

BunJai

01-29-2006, 02:37 PM

cool alot of tips for me too

i8apples

01-30-2006, 01:08 AM

straight up ask for it like a man

DaProdigy_718

02-02-2006, 04:08 PM

You have a good point. I didn't know it was really specific, I though it was general. But I can see why he can be shy. Let's imagine he messes up the first time, if he sees the girl around, every time she's gonna see him, she'll think "OMG it's the freak".
:P -worship -clapclap :) Lol

The thing is though, if a girl dont like you or doesn't even wanna start anything with you, then its hopeless. Like even if u put all this effort and have a perfect introduction trying to get to kno her, if she not interested in you and doesn't see herself ever attracted to you, then its hopeless(if she ignores u kinda). O and if u wanna kno if she's attracted to u, check out her body language (If it seems like she's not interested in talking to u then gameover 4 u). I think girls kno though if a Guy likes her and is tryign to get to kno her for the first time. Breaking the ice and seeming unpredictable could work 4 a start (gonna be hella awkward though). U girls/guys agree?

wguan_86

02-02-2006, 07:01 PM

:P -worship -clapclap :) Lol

The thing is though, if a girl dont like you or doesn't even wanna start anything with you, then its hopeless. Like even if u put all this effort and have a perfect introduction trying to get to kno her, if she not interested in you and doesn't see herself ever attracted to you, then its hopeless(if she ignores u kinda). O and if u wanna kno if she's attracted to u, check out her body language (If it seems like she's not interested in talking to u then gameover 4 u). I think girls kno though if a Guy likes her and is tryign to get to kno her for the first time. Breaking the ice and seeming unpredictable could work 4 a start (gonna be hella awkward though). U girls/guys agree?

1. i think it's awkward if the girls not use to it. If a female is use to that kind of attention your'd be another one to put on her list.

2. I believe your talking about certain kinds of girls, typical lil girls the ones that are out for the so called "gangster bad boys". That won't give guys second chance before they know them. But i do agree human nature exist the character of be Shallow

3. If a male is socialable they can seem interested in every female. That's the attractive part, the Guess Game...Does he like me or not?

All and all i think the approach is important...but keeping first approach short and simple is most important. Especially when you kno you'll meet again.. Then if it's one time thing, better have a good open and close. with a way to contact her.

aznrice

02-02-2006, 07:40 PM

nvm i got her to go to the prom with me -lol
thanx guys! :D

Ecko

02-02-2006, 09:15 PM

lol the prom... you shoulda jus went to any of the girls and go "can I holla, holla holla holla, let me holla at you.... can I hollla, holla holla holla"...

Ecko

02-02-2006, 09:26 PM

I think the thing is not breaking the ice, but "icebreakers" just pop 'em in your mouth chill the ladies with your icy cool breath. Or you can always spray those expensive deodorant on and the girls will practically jump on you.

SO anyway, how'd you end it doing it? Is she white, asian, black? Give us some details mang!

ernisle

02-03-2006, 05:52 AM

Talk to her for a bit, just try to approach her... Just do something...

wguan_86

02-03-2006, 01:16 PM

Lol Well you kno for one fact then.. she doesn't like anyone.. or the person she likes already taken or just doesnt like her.
Prom doesn't mean much just a partnership.....it's how you make of it.

But congrds ..that's a good first step. infact your 1/4 there

Err0r

02-06-2006, 03:10 PM

next group-project, work with her friend (most likely ugly easy-going girl). tell her ur working with her friend and u want her to sms u the friends number (your in a hurry so u cant stay to write it down)

cheech

02-06-2006, 10:20 PM

just be truthful and tell her that you think she looks hot
and want to be friends with her she should feel really flattered
as long as she doesn't think your'e some crazy perv then it's all good

Goodgirl

02-07-2006, 12:24 PM

JCRags

02-16-2006, 06:56 AM

Walk to her, start a conversation and ask after the conversation for her phone number. The next day send her a message ask about the last night and if she want to go to the movies sometime.

life_at_17

02-16-2006, 12:07 PM

haha. just go up to her and say .. ey can i have you number?? and stop. don't put any stupid pick up line in it. you'll end up giving her a bad impression

Castor2641

02-16-2006, 11:03 PM

You know. I used to have this trouble but now I am married. So my advice to you would just be yourself. Stay true to who you are. But I will say you need to approach her with confidence. Women can smell fear a mile away. trust me I know. Confidence my friend and some conversation. If you see its not going any where then walk away.

lionheart

02-16-2006, 11:58 PM

walk away?
isnt that a bad idea?
if you know it not going to work out, you can still be friends

Castor2641

02-17-2006, 01:08 AM

It could be seen as a bad idea, however if the woman is not receptive. How can you even begin to be friends.

I guess the real question is...In what setting are you seeing this woman? If she is someone you see in passing then approach it the way I originally said.

But if she is someone you constantly see, like in class or work, etc. Then you should approach it on a friendship level first, then see what you have in common, then proceed to move in for what you want. Granted she is willing.

popalopa

02-17-2006, 11:28 AM

But if she is someone you constantly see, like in class or work, etc. Then you should approach it on a friendship level first, then see what you have in common, then proceed to move in for what you want. Granted she is willing.

Yeah, yeah, totally agree. :)

maind02

02-17-2006, 01:19 PM

just ask her...and smile

aznwolvie

02-18-2006, 08:49 PM

tell her if this was the matrix, then you name must be neo...cuz u're the one.....hahaha..... :P

Ecko

02-19-2006, 01:15 AM

tell her if this was the matrix, then you name must be neo...cuz u're the one.....hahaha..... :P
that lines way too long winded... 'excuse me uh.. miss... are you the matrix... I mean your in the matrix... yes baby you are da one...' -cool -noclue

naruto1314

02-19-2006, 12:22 PM

wave ur hair and smile
said may i have ur #
hehe

Mcyl

02-19-2006, 05:19 PM

yea ask email instead lol

jeff414

02-20-2006, 01:05 PM

well, u could directly ask her out or do an indirect question..

jeff414

02-20-2006, 01:06 PM

or u just act u know her.. then u said oh you so familiar to a fren of mine.. then proceed.. creatively

gyyr2

02-20-2006, 02:26 PM

I'm no expert but I can say, if you fail this time, no sweat... try again until you succeed. Follow your heart and say what is right for you. Perhaps not with this person but who knows.. the best is yet to come!!Good luck.

Ecko

02-20-2006, 06:27 PM

I don't think its a question of asking a girl for #, but how to ask a girl for her address.

Ecko

02-20-2006, 06:37 PM

http://www.popularasians.com/showthread.php?t=1872&page=1&pp=10
This is how you ask for that number!!!

naruto1314

02-20-2006, 11:19 PM

http://www.popularasians.com/showthread.php?t=1872&page=1&pp=10
This is how you ask for that number!!!
lol good one

naruto1314

02-20-2006, 11:21 PM

I don't think its a question of asking a girl for #, but how to ask a girl for her address.
isnt that the same
number is safer because asking for the address they could have stalkers stalking them

kampungboy

02-22-2006, 10:20 AM

ask a group of fren together...and pay ur fren to not turn up..u will b alone wif her LOL

naruto1314

02-22-2006, 03:57 PM

ask a group of fren together...and pay ur fren to not turn up..u will b alone wif her LOL
old school trick
but nice trick

lionheart

02-22-2006, 05:31 PM

ask a group of fren together...and pay ur fren to not turn up..u will b alone wif her LOL

then they are not your friends, if they were, they wouldnt have taken the money, doing such a little thing requires money? haha...

Ecko

02-22-2006, 05:36 PM

why not pay them to be gangs and whoop their ass infront of her.... the 'rescue' trick always works right? or am I watchin too many TVB series!?

naruto1314

02-22-2006, 05:45 PM

why not pay them to be gangs and whoop their ass infront of her.... the 'rescue' trick always works right? or am I watchin too many TVB series!?
yea
too much tvb series

mingming2006

02-28-2006, 03:33 PM

lol- wguan_86- gd advise 2 any1 experiencin the same sitation- ya need some GUTS!!! believe in urself man!!! BE A MAN ;)

beta123

03-03-2006, 01:12 AM

which number? fone # or the xx-xx-xx #? lol

naruto1314

03-03-2006, 08:44 AM

lol- wguan_86- gd advise 2 any1 experiencin the same sitation- ya need some GUTS!!! believe in urself man!!! BE A MAN ;)
well also be confidence about your self and have gut is the key

brownishmarker

03-03-2006, 11:52 AM

yo bitch, your ass is looking phat, i want a piece, how bout u gimmie those digits so we can procreate, get my mini me to climb into ur glory hole if u know what im saying. then u wink do ur pimp smile with the bling bling flash from ur teeth hold out ur hand and say , u best hurry before i change my mind and ask ur friend. =D pure gold

naruto1314

03-03-2006, 12:40 PM

ckhar

07-02-2007, 08:00 AM

Just go straight, tell her how you feel............ simple as that

subaru3169

07-02-2007, 08:27 AM

"hi, i'm subaru3169.. what's your name.. ok, may i call you sometime??"

there

rccola75

07-02-2007, 08:42 AM

Depends on the situation. But for the most part, don't be shy and just go and talk to the girl. Ask for her number if you sense that things are going well. If not, then no big deal.
Basically just be yourself and don't be scared of getting rejected.

reno

07-02-2007, 09:08 AM

"what's ur number?" :P

aishiteru4

07-02-2007, 09:54 AM

hmm...i m agirl.. n i would say.. just ask me.. instead of taking big circles... hehehe
i wouldnt mind giving u the number as long as u ask..
cos i can always reject the call lol..
doesnt hurt to give ehhehe

aniking_7

07-02-2007, 04:19 PM

Try to see if she need help of anything or act like you needed help.

fearless_fx

07-02-2007, 04:22 PM

"Hey, you dropped this piece of paper with your number on it!"

*hands girl the paper*

'what? my number isn't on this...'

"not yet, but here's a pen :) "

superdash

07-02-2007, 04:23 PM

hope this helps :D

Never say "How about giving me your number?". Always use something like "I'd like to talk to you again, is there a number I can reach you at?". This always produces much better results because she must aviod saying "no" or she will sound stupid because that will mean there is not a number she can be reached at. It also makes you more original than every other idiot that asks for her number.

khaotic

07-02-2007, 04:26 PM

"Hey, you dropped this piece of paper with your number on it!"

*hands girl the paper*

'what? my number isn't on this...'

"not yet, but here's a pen :) "

I bet you get a lot of girls with that fearless

fearless_fx

07-02-2007, 04:29 PM

yeah, im all about the creative approach :P

kakenx

07-02-2007, 05:47 PM

idea from Ckthepilot.. spill coffee on her and then ask for the number.. tell her u want to treat her dinner/lunch to apologize.. maybe come out later for the dry cleaning bill...

Personally, I find it much easier to ask a girls number if you're with a female friend.. so a wing-girl haha! If your female friend asks for the number it's very high success rate haha! If you dont have a female friend than ull just have to solo it... depending on the environment ur in.. if ur alone and she's alone, it's much easier.. if she's with a friend than it really depends on ur gutz and game haha!

I'd say go ask for the number..approach w/ a slight smile and say something like "Hi, I'm sorry to bother u.. I was just wondering if you'd like to come out for a drink sometimes?" it's either "I'm sorry, I have a BF", "No, sorry" or "Yes, sure!"...Just be confident, and dont take it like the world's gunna end if she says no.. lots of other girls out there.. just look around and ull see some fat guy with the most beautiful womans out there.. maybe it's cuz they have money, but a lot of times is bcuz they got the guts to actually approach.. remember be YOURSELF!

kianu

07-02-2007, 06:28 PM

I saw you standing there..so sexy and beatiful....so i take the courage ...if you would like to go out with me??

MadeinChina

07-02-2007, 07:03 PM

I forgot my number, can I have urs?

winnz

07-02-2007, 07:09 PM

lol. i think the pick up lines dont really work personally. most girls will just think its cheesy or think yur joking around. i think it really depends where u are when ur asking for her number. i was at a club last night, and guys just go straight out and say "whats your number". straight to the point. whether they giv it to u, is another thing. or if you already know each other sorta.. through mutual frineds, just ask for her number and say ill call u sometime to hang out. if shes just some random girl standing there, like, say.. at a mall.lol. i suggest u leave it. because that would seem really freaky. if its fate, u will meet her again tho.

ckthepilot

07-02-2007, 09:59 PM

just ask her... :/

xmichelly

07-02-2007, 10:24 PM

I was walking in dt the other day and I walked past this guy just when he was asking a girl, "So can I have your number?" She gave it to him. So I guess you should just talk to her about something you have in common and just come out with it,

~*Dawn*~

07-03-2007, 12:07 AM

tell her you want to mate with her...

and that's y knoc ended up patrolling the forum instead of mating with a female -tongue2

only joking -innocent

skid

07-03-2007, 11:37 AM

lol me and my friends always joke around saying that we always get girls numbers at parties, clubs etc and they give us fake ones, but we don't call anyways so it evens out hahah

but for real, it really depends on the girl too, some girls are cool with it, some will get freaked out. Basically if you just approach nicely and spark up a conversation, even if you don't get much out of it, at least you got some practice and this builds confidence. Eventually you'll find someone out there who wouldn't mind having a date, coffee dinner whatever. Once you kick it off it shouldn't be too hard, but its starting out that's always difficult.

poonworthy

07-03-2007, 04:33 PM

Steal her phone and put your # on it.

galaxysc

07-04-2007, 12:09 PM

aishiteru4

07-04-2007, 12:14 PM

all these are easier said then done....for me anywayz...

i always tell i'll just smile and say hi (to guys for my case :D)
nothing wrong with that....but when i see them....i'll just keep quiet...

but yeah....i think the best is just to say hi and start a convo and see how things go from there

errr wait... so r u a guy or a girl? u mean u like guys?-huh
well.. i have nothing against gay guys... but i tot it's kinda easy to ask no's thou? no? thats from wot i saw from movies..