Well .. I think the title hinted of what I am about to say next.
I made an earlier post about visiting Vancouver for a day. I called up my college roommate to see if we can meet and catch up since he's a local. Boy, was I in for a big surprise. He suddenly told me that he's getting married next month so has been very busy with the preparation.
We haven't met for over 10 years but we have stay in touch through email and telephone. We were closed buddy .. as least that I what I thought until today. I would expect an invitation even if I can't make it to his wedding or whatever but this ..no notice or nothing and had I not called to chat a bit, I probably wouldn't have known about it at all.
I was obviously pissed off and kinda sad about it; however, I held it up and congratulated him. I figure this is it .. our friendship is out the window. My wife said I am overreacting and should send a gift of some sort. Am I and should I??? It makes sense if I received an invitation and then send a gift or whatever but there was no mentioning at all in our exchanged email and nothing in the slow mail.