If you had plans to go to your fiance's aunt's bday dinner a month ago, but suddenly a week prior you realize that your dad's 60th birthday is going to be held on the same day because it's the only weekend available and everyone (or at least majority) can make it on that day ... what would you do?
I can understand that the fiance would be upset because prior arrangements have been made and it seems last minute .. but what am i supposed to do. I cannot control it.
I also realize that i didn't discuss it and just stated that i cannot go to the aunt's bday dinner, but I'm the son, it's my dad's 60th birthday (which is like a milestone). I'm torn, i don't want the fiance to have negative feelings towards my parents and vice versa ...
Like I don't mind if she goes to her aunt's bday dinner and not be present at my dad's, but I have to be at my dad's since i'm the son. Once I finish dinner, i can join them for the rest of the night which I have no problem with .. but .. i don't know ..
what would you do, how would you react/feel if you were the fiance.